JJ,

You are correct.

The d will be dropped whether my h agrees or not.

But I'd like to get his input on the decision anyway.

The last time he was upset I filed for a continuance without his knowledge. (not sure what he would have done if he'd known...though he kept saying no to the continuance he ended up agreeing to it in court!!! Crazymaking to say the least!!!)

If h says he wants the d, well then I'll drop my suit and then HE can refile! I think responsibility for filing and pushing the d should be assumed by the s that wants it!

Cindy