One giant leap forward! - Part 5

[T1000]

I didn't meet Ow for years. I made it clear to exH to keep her out of my sight until I was ready. He obliged. I met her after they were married. Ex H had a surgery and couldn't come downstairs to get our D. So she came down to get him. To my own surprise I was simply nice. No hand shaking, but I sweet, no attitude.

The best part was she was nervous as hell. I got a personal joy out of that one.

My only go was to show her I am the better person. I'm not a mean bitch or whatever picture ex H painted of me to make it ok to have an affair with a married man with a baby on the way.

We see each other when we have to these days. I'm friendly because I'm at a point I can be. And she is friendly also, but still very intimidated by me.

So, you say a quick hello, dime he is no threat to you. Because he will find you as a threat. Be that great father because that intimidates them more.

You'll be fine. And IMHO, if she starts binding him around this soon and around you this soon, it goes to show how low and classless she is.

I'm in the same boat as sandi here. I don't like her one bit.

Funny how I cannot stand to even hear from her right now. You saying you don't like her one bit got me defensive. Maybe that's just an instinct thing.