I wouldn't shake his hand. Ever. In my case, OM was my W's client. We even went on a holiday abroad. Can't say i know him that well though. W was pretty much pissed off when i hardly acknowledge him after BD. A nod is pretty much what i could muster. W thinks i should be nice and welcoming. Can't be nice to someone who can't even look you in the eyes, right?
The fact that she can even express that to you and expect anything else is ridiculous.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14