Thank you for the responses. I should Also add she wants us to live as friends right now. I'm to think of Us as roommates. There is no hugging touching or words of affection. I've said nothing about the relationship or talked about the situation for a week. I believe their is some validity to her feelings of trust issues. A few years ago She wasn't honest and upfront about being in contact with an old boyfriend and althought she said at the time she cut of contacting him it has lingered with me and created issues.