A "friendly reminder" sounds doable. I'll just worry bout doing it when I absolutely have to...next week!
This week I'm going to chill! Not worry about it .
Even if h says give me the d (which I think is highly unlikely) I can still put in for the non-suit and let him file for the d he wants so badly. I'm NOT having the d on my conscience!
If it makes him mad to refile, well so be it. I don't see me getting back together with him if he choose to refile after all this work!!!!