Need some advice still. I think I know the answer but would appreciate some feedback and thoughts.

Going through mediation and finalizing maintenance for the W. I would like to push back to protect myself financially in the future but obviously would like to keep the road paved back. She is getting a very fair deal and could live comfortably without getting a job ... but that is with 100% child support and maintenance inc. We will be sharing custody 50%.

This is a dance that is delicate but I struggle with earning respect by not completely giving in on this.

M: 43
W: 43
Married: 17 Together: 20
BD: 4/8/13 no legal or physical S as of yet
3 kids: S:14 D:13 D:9
W admitted EA: 5/5/13
Mediation started: 6/3/13
W says EA is done: 6/30/13 - still interested in D