I understand where you're coming from. You feel you and your family have been and are being MORE than reasonable, and that she is being extremely unreasonable, disrespectful, and downright rude. And you're being told that you need to, as you see it, capitulate even more and that you are, in fact, not being reasonable. So you try to rephrase what you are saying because any reasonable person in your shoes would certainly agree with you. Right? You feel like your W is constantly crapping on you and you're being told that you also have to buy the toilet paper. (BTW, you aren't crazy and I think you're being extremely fair and honest.)
I understand the sentiment that you need to (continue to) be the bigger person in this situation, but I also understand having a line in the sand and it being crossed...and realizing your line has been crossed is okay, just make sure you handle it the best way possible for you and your daughter.
Good luck this weekend! Be in control of yourself. Don't lose your composure.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
