Hoping for help and support.

[Mimi00]

"Money, helping more around the house, a accusations of being controlling, trust issues from the past. I'm lost at this point."

Are those her complaints about the marriage? If so, do you think they are valid?

I agree that you should not leave the house...she is the one questioning if she wants her family or not....not you. So, politely do not give in to you leaving your home and being inconvenienced.

Until you get the DR book, no relationship talks, if she feels you are controlling learn to listen, understand and validate her....I doesn't mean you agree...also do what you can to change whatever it is you do that makes her feel controlled.

I'm sure some vets will come soon w more advice...all the best to you!