Help! I'm so hopeless and devastated...

[RosaLinda]

Thanks Trying, but your post made sense too. And you've been thru this twice yourself. I was just relating what my DB coach instructed me to do. (and yes, it is expensive, yikes!)

But only Peace knows if she can continue to live in her home with her H. Mine went thru a couple of nasty angry spells, and gets nasty occasionally (especially when I forget and approach him) but on the most part, he is pretty quiet and peaceful.