mathwichi, What anotherstander says make sense. How I interpret it is let her make all the advances and you none of them. Unless she initiates things, don't be the first to initiate things. If she does initiate them then go along with it. Does that make sense? Have you read Sandi's rules on here? It's a set of guidelines to follow whilst she's apart from you and while she's working out what she wants in life. Hope you have a nice weekend and find plenty to keep you occupied
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