Originally Posted By: PatientMan
Either she is NOT serious and needs to learn that threats to herself and others are not okay and need to stop immediately, or she IS serious and her capacity to care for her children is in question.

She's a good mother. No doubt about that.
I'm leaning towards her not being able to follow through her threats. After all, she has our kids to think of first.
She has a huge EGO to work at. She can be very disrespectful to her own parents. She does not think she's ever wrong. It's always someone else's fault.
I have urged her to seek couselling. I hope that she realizes that no one can always be so accommodating towards her wishes before she wrecks her relationship with our kids.
I do have a part in 'shaping' her. I regret the things that i have done in ways that could have traumatize her forever. I truly hope that she will someday drop her 'hatred' towards me and my family.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet