"H is justifying his trip and presenting it to his family as just going over there to meet a friend. We know better LOL, and so does his mom and our sons."
Isn't it sad how they'll keep up the lie, when *nobody* is buying it?!
Sorry to hear you're also facing a dreaded anniversary. W and I have one in Sept as well! Caused me to backpedal a bit, but sandi2 and some others showed up on my post to set me straight! :-)