Ok, I'm selfish!!! Didn't let on to h though. It bothers me that he's going to a pub for superbowl with men only. I worry he will be picking up women but like Wiley says he's a grown man...he can take care of himself. And I'm sure if he dallies our mutual friend will pass it on to me.

Minor consolation was he seemed upset that I was going out too but not upset enough to risk asking me to go to an all male outing! Last time he THOUGHT women were not invited ....some of the other guys showed up with their wives. It's good though he's upset I have a party to go to too!!!

Wiley, you'd been proud! I was upbeat and happy....beat him to the punch cause I said that I needed to get his plans cause I need to RSVP for a party! When he got around to actually saying I was not invited to the all male bash, the wind was out of his sails cause I taken care of either way. I said to h well since I have somewhere to go then you don't have to worry about telling me when to leave...I'll have to leave at x time to make my party! He was like whhaattt???.

heh, heh!!!

It's hard to realize that guys need man time...I can't seem to let go of my fear that he will only be out to pick up a woman.

Oh, well my party will be mixed company....law enforcement types!!! Who says he can be the only one to LOOK!!? Or get a phone number....ok maybe not a number !

Wish me luck all!

Cindy