See this post if you haven't already. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2250607#Post2250607

Giving space can be good; depends on your situation. A vet will come by soon and give better advice than I can. For me giving lots of space in the beginning worked very well... Or seemed to. I have not repaired my marriage yet.

Good luck!!

Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)