Hi Cindy!

GREAT JOB on not making that call yesterday afternoon!! I know it must have been pretty tough not to do, but just look at what benefits it reaped for you! Keep the "teething" idea, and not making too many assumptions, in your "more of what works" column!

Re Super Bowl Sunday, let me put this spin on it. What if this were another friend of yours, and not your H, and you had confusion on what the plans were, what would you do? Do you think asking for clarification might be in line?

If so, how would you ask this friend?

Try not to "over DB" things. I think that this may be a case where some simple communication is called for. If I recall correctly, this is something where the two of you had some difficulties in the past, and this may be a good place to start to make that change.

So, how might you be able to ask him for clarification on whether this was an invite, or if he said this just for information or comments about what he had going on that day?


JJ

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