BC39 apologies if I got carried away with the topic of the selfishness required to obliviate a marriage to what many would consider a 'good spouse'.

Lets get back to how YOU are doing. I have been following along with your journey for quite some time now and like many others, I am proud of where you have gotten yourself mentally.

How are things? Do you have plans for labor day? Give us an update when you have a few minutes.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017