When I told S1 to come in for bed he threw himself on the floor in a angry rage because he wanted to stay out.
Sound like top-evaluation – great!
IMO: When you have done the pics and hopefully like it (I know you will) then take the grand tour around your home with paper and pencil. Make yourself a list of things you would like to change. Prioritize them due to time, money and importance and then get to work! (The best things I have done took me second and didn’t cost anything! Getting rid of a vase or some nips and then replacing it with something from a box I stuffed away in the garage because W didn’t like the things!)
If we are alike you will enjoy the work but the results even more. This is not just about getting her out of the house it much more about getting you in. Kind of like all the rest we are doing – focusing! IMO that focus is hard to keep if we spend our freetime in a frame designed by W, with pictures of her, her stuff and so on! You have taken control of you so long ago – now spread it around your home – make it yours and the boy’s with what you’ve got! – just like the frame you’ve just build.
All the best!
F
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
