Help! I'm so hopeless and devastated...

[peaceSJ]

180, I think you're right. My friends said the same thing to me. But my biggest concerns are if I let him move out, it will hurt the kids so much; They are only 5 and 7 years old. They don't know how to adjust. So far we didn't argue in front of the kids. Secondly I still love him so much, I don't want to give up on him...