Sometimes He mentioned that he want either me or himself to move out, but I don't know how serious he was. Because I said I don't want seperation, then he will say we can live under the same roof just like roommates.
Peace, I do feel that this will be emotionally draining for you, as I know it has been already. I realise it's hard to let them go but sometimes you have to so that they can see that the grass is not greener on the other side. I'm not saying to kick him out, that's your choice. I'm just giving you my 2 cents worth Also it may confuse the kids as well, especially if you argue in front of them. I grew up in a house where my parents didn't want to be together anymore and it was horrible for me and my sister! We used to go for a walk when our parents were arguing in the bedroom. They probably think that if they argued in the bedroom then we couldn't hear them. I remember one time my dad throwing something outside that belonged to my mum and really had a go at her. My mum used to get so worked up when my dad had a go at her that she'd faint. My mum left my dad eventually without giving a proper reason other than she'd found someone else. This left me feeling confused and wondering whether it was my fault. It was one of the worse times of my childhood!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
