Ok, yesterday evening had to use that "He May Be Teething" article posted by JJ!

My s had left a message for h which h did not return. I found h on the caller idea at 9:15pm though.

My mind was going crazy cause it was h's day off. I wanted so BAD to call and grill as to his whereabouts. I thought to my self...hey we are married isn't it my right to know where he is at any given moment? Didn't even think for a moment that he was doing anything innocent! Assumptions AWAY!!!

Well I didn't call! And boy am I glad I didn't.

He called last night and I didn't bring it up, didn't ask what he'd been doing. AND he volunteered the info all on his own! told me he was at his friends house helping him build planter boxes and a deck. (said he was extremely sore and tired) I told him that he was very helpful to do that for his friend.

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H asked us to come visit him Saturday night. Mentioned he was invited to 2 super bowl parties and was not sure which one HE should go to. No invite for me !!! In the past he would just ASSUME I was going to go and not ask.

So now I guess I need to call and get clarification of plans for Sunday?

I think to say to h: Hi. After our talk of weekend plans, I feel a little unsure as to what will be taking place on Sunday. I understand that you will be going to a superbowl party Sunday night. This is where I'm not clear...do you want the boys and I to go home Sunday evening? I'd like to confirm with you that this is what the understanding is so expectations can be clear. No problem for me either way to go with you or go alone...I have a sitter for the boys because at work today some co-workers invited me to a superbowl party. Can you let me know Saturday afternoon what you prefer to do so I can confirm my plans for Sunday night? I'll be expecting your call Saturday. Thanks!"

I want to go with h but don't want to pressure him. I need to know what he plans for Sunday evening so I'm not sitting there in his living room suddenly caught unawares by his 'get out, I'm leaving' statement! I want my message to be cool but I also want to indicate that either way I've GOT something to do!

PLEASE ADVISE!

Cindy