You know, Rosa, I know it's not you. But the thing is this - he is going away to be with another woman.

So, why would you say anything like what you want to say to him?

Remember the holding onto the pants leg analogy? His choice, this trip. His consequences. Leave him to them.

You make sure you are looking good and act as if you have better things to do than ask him to call you to let you know he got there, ok?

You got this. I know it.