Sorry, I should post my question on my thread. Here is it.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2381007&#Post2381007

Sandi2 or everyone, I'd appreciate it if you can reply my question

M 18 yrs
5 & 7 yrs old kids
H DB in 4/2013
H moved out in 11/2013