Hi Milehigh, I thought I'd pop over to see you on your thread. At one time H said he wanted a D. Paperwork wasn't started and I've not seen anything from his solicitor. I think like you he can't afford to start the D proceedings, but he's not said anything. I've not mentioned anything about it either and I don't intend to! He hasn't told me that he's not been to the solicitors, he probably wants me to think that he's D me! Me and my H are in the same position. We're good friends, but I want something more. You're right when you say that good friends is better than nothing at all, but sometimes if they're being moody then it affects you more than if they weren't speaking to you, don't you think? When my H has fallen out with me it affects me probably worse than if we had just been amicable with each other. Having said that I'd rather be friends with him than not speaking at all, especially when there's children involved.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!