W: "I guess you're just gonna be b!tching because I don't do everything you want. I don't know why I even bother to try. You'll never change."
Your texts continue to sound really passive/ aggressive to me, and controlling/ manipulative. I think that's why she's not responding when you keep pushing the dissolution, she's probably thinking "oh now he wants it on HIS timeline, same old controlling/ manipulative H he always was."
Now I'm not saying you were the worst H ever, I am trying to help you see things from her point of view. You keep using words like "crazy" to describe her, but actually a lot of what she's saying makes sense, you're just so busy trying to defend yourself that you can't see it.
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And I couldn't agree more on texting - that text exchange is about the longest I will allow, then I just stop texting and call.
The exchanges may be short but they are extremely damaging. NTX_Dad is right, you should either refrain from texting at all or keep it strictly business. No more cheap jabs.
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However, soon I'll need to file a legal response if she won't do the dissolution, but she says I'll just lie about her in court.
Are you in a no-fault-divorce state? If so then it doesn't matter which of you did what, it's irrelevant to the case. Most states are no-fault because the courts finally realized what a minefield it is trying to sort through all the he-said-she-said stuff to determine fault.
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I told her I don't lie
Bwaaahaaahaa! Well that's a big fat lie now, isn't it? EVERYONE lies. It's like that old joke about masturbation, studies show that 90% of the population does it and the other 10% lie about it.
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but our mutual friends even say she's crazy
You should hear what they're telling her about YOU!
