Quote: MC reported that last week was good because H said it was MORE RELAXED..I was NOT PUSHING..admits I"M DIFFERENT..HE DIDN"T FEEL PRESSURED..
Hmmm, now where have you heard that if you do those things, you might see things turn in your favor somewhat??.. Nobody likes pressure or the thought of having anything "crammed down their throats". Thats why I always say the most important thing you can do is take off the PRESSURE and you'll be surprised at what happens..
Quote: Its so hard to wait and be loving and not even get a smile from him when I'm trying so hard"
I'd recommend you tone it down a notch on the "trying so hard". When you make it too painfully clear to him that your sole purpose appears to be showering him with love and affection, naturally, he'll be guarded a little bit, because its human nature for him to think you're doing it to save the M, since he wasn't accustomed to that type of unwavering behavior when you were together. He's just a little shy and probably needs to see more consistency. But as they say, too much of a good thing can actually be a bit of a turn off, men like a woman who is affectionate, but also plays a little hard to get and is confident in herself, rather than too lovey dovey. Finding the proper balance and/or mixing things up a little bit, may just make him WANT to pursue you a little more than what you're getting right now.
Keep up the non pressuring end of things, he appears to be feeling more comfortable around you, and thats good news. Doesn't means he's head over heels in love, but he senses you're changing and he's apparently thinking about things, and he's willing to go with the Cindy flow for now, which for him seems to be a 180..
Nobody likes pressure or the thought of having anything "crammed down their throats". Thats why I always say the most important thing you can do is take off the PRESSURE and you'll be surprised at what happens.. 
