Yeah... It is hard for me to turn my brain off. I am an academic. I teach economics, statistics, and research methods. I also worked in psychological test development for 15 years ... So I know enough about psychology to get myself in trouble...

That's just me ...

I read other's situations and analyze those too. Looking for patterns to emerge... Not enough data to come to any conclusions yet... Remember "for example" is not data...

Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)