It's actually funny, because I was telling my best friend how I needed to look into what I did wrong instead of putting it all on her, and he actually called up some of his ex-girlfriends afterward and talked to them about himself.
He said he realized he is kind of an ass.
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers