It is an extremely interesting shift when the WAS loses the power over the LBS; the dynamics are fascinating. I think I'm taking advantage of that, and you're right - I'm angry, and at the moment, I don't care. I'm sure this momentary anger isn't going to erase 3 years of love, but it's healing and freeing. I should have been more selective in some of the words I used, but I was gloating a little.
Although, I actually did text W earlier this morning and basically said: Me: "I DO care, that's why I started working on behaviors before you got back. This situation isn't about me not caring, its about you being in control"
W: "I guess you're just gonna be b!tching because I don't do everything you want. I don't know why I even bother to try. You'll never change."
Me: (after blinking a few times) "I don't really understand what you're saying; I'm not asking you for anything. I am offering to sign the dissolution you want. I'm moving on, like you want. You'll never have to see or speak to me again. Why is this not the happiest day of your life?"
