Confused and Lost

[25yearsmlc]

So your anger, and reacting in anger, set you back??

Now you are wondering about hiring a P I....to what end?

If its not to punish her, I don't know what is.

You are going astray again, & forgetting how you two got here.

You do this at Your peril.

Also, while you think your daughter coming to the ANNIVERSARY dinner lessened the awkwardness, it also eliminated any chance for emotional intimacy. Ask yourself why that was okay with you, I mean, good grief! Why no sitter?

And then ask yourself how much that has been happening the past few years.

What are you avoiding? The very closeness & intimacy your wife craves & needs?

That's my guess. Dig way deeper & be brave. Change YOU.