I saw my C today and one thing I said to her was that I think I could forgive my H much more easily as his friendly co-parent than as his W. My expectations of R are quite high, so...
My C said that R with cute guy is "dangerous," as some of you here have indicated it to be. She said make sure to "stick to your boundaries," which I told her was NO SEX with cute guy.
I just don't think I could go there and then be in a good place. And, I certainly don't want to end up where H is!!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.