This just hit me ( I know I'm slow)

I'm going to try to think like a guy

It has to be a real kick in the a$$ to be dumped by your make believe girlfriend. The fantasy he had of the perfect relationship was crushed in reality.

How the hell does anyone compare against her now?

He " lost" something he never "had"

WOW

I suggest you give the man a lot of space because he will be in meltdown soon and it will not be pretty


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13