Peace, thanks for stopping by and commenting on my post. It's very hard to give them time and space, I imagine more so when they're still at home. My W was away right after the BD, but when she would come over to get stuff we weren't ready to even see each other. It took a while before she got done with the anger and blame and had time to experience the time alone, so that we could interact again in a friendly manner.
I don't have friends or family around either, so I spend a lot of time calling and texting! It helps to get out and do stuff, even if it's just walking in a park, strolling the mall - it took me a while to feel like doing anything I normally like to do.
H needs time and space, so give him that and use that same time for yourself.
