I don't think your sitch is rare. I think that you'll find a lot of people on here are in the same boat as you. My H just packed his stuff up one day and left. He sent me a text later to say that he's left and he's staying with a friend. Now he's got his own flat. Although I see my H quite often, we never talk about the sitch. I've just heard hearsay off other people which I don't take as gospel as they might've got it wrong. I feel that you are in a "poor me" frame of mind. You either need to go to the doctors to get some help for your depression or start getting a PMA! I've worked out (it's only taken me 5 months!) that to help my PMA I need to laugh long and hard at a comedy show or dance around to some music. That's why the festival helped me so much, dancing around to a madness tribute band really helped Going out with friends helps as well, as long as you don't depress them by talking about your sitch all the time Keeping yourself busy will help stop you thinking about what your W is going to do next. Concentrate on your job prospects and practice interview techniques Keep up with the PMA
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Going out with friends helps as well, as long as you don't depress them by talking about your sitch all the time 
