Just an update, as I 'm finding it hard to keep detached.

XH is 3 weeks into a grand holiday sailing from Venice down the Adriatic coast in a private yacht, with OW, of course.

He has been in Montenegro for over a week now.
I know, because I have to keep checking the bank account for evidence of his spending power to report to child support agency.
And boy, is he spending...

But it's a bit like looking at FB... just makes me feel bad to see him living the high life while we struggle back at home.

The kids are doing badly with this. He left without telling them that he was going, and has not contacted them at all for 3 weeks now.

This stopping of contact just came out of the blue.

He'd call them at least every 2 days before this.

They are struggling. And I don't know what to say to them.