So true F. While this all hurts day in and day out, we have to look at the big picture, because I can probably guarantee (no mindreading here) that the WAS is not looking at the big picture. Most likely they are focusing on day to day. lovenomatterwhat: We need to focus and continue to focus on that big picture: making us a better person. It will take time, but we will get there. Giving up now will never change your WAS view, but not giving up may change their view. If it doesn't, then you will still have a better view and outlook on life. Just remember, we cannot change their views.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
