I am not totally up to speed on your sitch but I have a question and you don’t need to answer. I am not a VET but I know the hurt, the feelings, the despair – it all!! BUT…..
When you in two, three or more years from now (D or no D) look back at this time in your life, what would you like to see? (What would make you proud looking back? What would make you feel good about you and about the way you handled yourself?)
Do not go with a hunch, the quick answer or the textbook – work through these thoughts (remember D or no D), obtain the knowledge you need and then make up your mind! What would you like to see looking back?
Vision that and then simply do it!
Until then stick with all the advice you have gotten from VETS and Sandi’s rules otherwise you risk blasting it all to pieces.
(I do get you! This is well meant!)
All the best!
F
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
