Here is cold hard reality that I needed to learn........

When your kids are with her they are hers and when they are with you they are yours. Cold- I know

DO NOT TRY TO OUTPARENT HER- Its tempting (and will be very easy as she gets sloppier and sloppier in the fog)

When you get pissed off what do you do immediately??? I drop and do 30- helps clear the head

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13