What I had explained earlier was we were both doing it. She actually would pull scissors or other things on me when she was frustrated as if to stab me. I would usually say "seriously?" and she would put them down and not acknowledge it. She has also thrown things at me, etc, and she has a tendency to blow her stack and start screaming at me about this, or that.
It doesn't excuse what I did, but we were both doing it to each other. I'm trying to take care of it now, realize I screwed up, etc.
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers
