W texted me this morning, and I just had to laugh. She said, "You have nothing to be mad about. I am not sleeping with anyone, and I haven't even come close. You're being ridiculous"
Apparently, you can ditch your marriage, spend a bunch of time with a guy, and leave everyone around you - and as long as you're not having sex, I shouldn't be mad!
I know it sounds absurd, but a lot of WAS's do think this way. They think that if they don't have intercourse then they're not engaging in an affair. We talk a lot around here about how EA's are just as damaging as PA's and sometimes even more damaging because an EA can feed a WAS's fantasy in ways a PA cannot. But most WAS's just don't see it that way. You can argue with her about it, but she will never come around to your way of seeing it. So it's best just not to respond to texts like that.
