This long weekend he is going to be gone for three days without telling us where he will be. The kids didn't know that and already asked where we'll go on labor day. He's planning to tell them he will work overtime during this long weekend. I disagreed and insisted on not cheating on kids. If they foud out later, they'll be very disappointed. Am I right? I feel so hurtful, but how should I deal with this situation? Should I just let him do whatever he likes and pretend I don't care?
This is why I said up above "So if he goes then fine, but if he doesn't go, well that's fine too because you and the kids are still going without him." Just continue with your plans.
As for him lying to your kids, that's between him and the kids. Don't agree with him or disagree with him when he says he's going to lie to them. He's going to do whatever he wants to do and you've got to accept that you can't control him. Live your life and let him live his. He's going to make a lot of bad choices in the coming months, you can't save him from doing that. Just protect yourself and your kids from the storm as best you can.
