W and her solicitors have filed the relevant paperwork at court. The decree nisi (intention to dissolve the marriage) will be read out in court in 2 weeks time. The decree absolute ,the final divorce can be applied for 6 weeks after that, so we have 8 weeks to finalise financial and custody matters through mediation and we will be finally Divorced. Oh W solicitors did advise me it was a criminal offense to access someone’s computer without their permission, ok it was a wrong thing to do, but it did confirm to me that divorce is the right thing to do, otherwise I would still be holding out hope for that last minute miracle.
I have mixes feelings, I know this has to be done and should have been done a long time ago (DB has probably helped me prolong thing by 4 -5 years) but it feels like my heart has been ripped out and thrown on the floor and probably stomped on a few times. Anyhow, give me a few minutes then I’ll pick it up, put it back, and get ready to start a new chapter.
