Separated, D filed, possible emotional affair

[NTX_Dad]

Geeesh... it all sounds so familiar.

I had doubts about the DB methods, and flirted off and on with the methods on here for a year while separated. It's actually when I really did check out and go dark that things made a dramatic turn around in my sitch. In fact, I went from wanting to fix things to wanted to end it. When my WAS wanted to come back, I really had to think long and hard about it.

From her text to you today I can tell she's not done, and that she's worried that you are done. So just minimize contact and stay as dark as you can. Focus on yourself and try to make yourself happy.