Yeah, that is exactly the case with the dissolution - she only asked for her grandmother's piano. I'm not a bit worried about the full divorce case - she wouldn't get a thing - but I'd spend on legal fees, and have to sit in a public court and air out all her dirty laundry, and I want to leave with my dignity and actions intact.

W texted me this morning, and I just had to laugh. She said, "You have nothing to be mad about. I am not sleeping with anyone, and I haven't even come close. You're being ridiculous"

Apparently, you can ditch your marriage, spend a bunch of time with a guy, and leave everyone around you - and as long as you're not having sex, I shouldn't be mad!

It's just getting ridiculous to me now...