I need to make better friends, since most of my friends think what I did wasn't a problem. That's part of the problem with going to friends about your problems; they are always on your side and you won't get objective feedback.

The first person to tell me that I had anger problems and was emotionally abusive (other than my wife who I didn't believe) was the DB coach. It was like a slap to the face and really made me think.

T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old
7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile
7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile
8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers