Thanks Another. I carry 37 rules with me and read frequently! W admitted feelings for OM 12/12. Been a long road since then. Think she too thought it was over at some point leading up to 6/28/13 when at last day at her old job, he popped back up and "the whole thing came back." Sounds like he never pursued it seriously because he was afraid for his career. He senior doctor, she was cafeteria worker. Today, it's feeling more and more like it's overr/winding down. Whether that's her decison or his, I don't know. Not sure it matters. Words and actions are noticably on the 'coming towards me' side. Last weekend I db-ed over changing her oil. Said, I can show you how so you can start doing these things on your own. "You're not goin' anywhere for a long time!" (We laughed and I said, "ooohh yeah, your so sure of that...huh?!) Anywho, will keep at it. Thanks!