Feels like Deja vu, I'm gonna go down there tomorrow to hopefully pick up the kids. I feel that if I ask if I'm still having them or where I'm picking them up it gives her the power to say no or whatever else.
If I happen meet OM or he is there how should I be in regards to him? Ignore him? Acknowledge he is there but with an under current that he is dating my W? Or is he just some other person?
W mentioned in her spew that OM treats her with respect and is nice to her. So pretty much like every guy that gets a new girlfriend then.
Before I told my brother to not show me or tell me anymore he showed me a picture quote W had put on her facebook just after the spew.
Quote:
"A man who treats his woman like a princess is a proof that he has been born and raised in the arms of a queen"
The grammar isn't up to much.
I actually laughed when I saw it. Quite clever because in a way it could be insulting to me and my mother and a compliment to OM and his mother at the same time.
If he can be everything she wants him to be and not become completely walked over and lose his own identity then he will be doing well.
Hard to imagine W getting on long term with any man and his mother who are even slightly close.
I didn't struggle to sleep last night. Woke up this morning and felt fine. These recents events aren't really bothering me. I actually feel a little bit sorry for her as if she's lost her way. Only time will tell.
I think if I had played it differently in early August we would together but not in a healed way. She isn't/wasn't ready that's very obvious now. I was too eager or blind to see it.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
