In a way i was always punching above my weight with my W. She is a 8.5 or a 9 on a good day. I'm 7-8. OM is maybe 5 with a paper bag over his head.
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Originally Posted By: Fartiltre
And they need to feel in control and loved!! If they are the prettiest, the best educated the richest and so on compared to OM/OW they get the feeling of control out of this. At the same time OM/OW feels so lucky scoring out of their normal league and because of this they will adore, admire and love to the death – all the things that LBH properly didn’t do!
I've never heard this take, but it makes a lot of sense. The WAS wants to feel adored and if they reach way down into the dregs then it's an easy made-to-order admirer. It's never really made sense to me why the WAS always seems to "trade down" with the OP compared to the LBS, but you may be onto something here.
