BC39.....The fight for my marriage continues

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Lovethehub, I think lbs seek explanations not necessarily for the WAW left, but for HOW. atleast that is how I feel. Not looking for why she did it because I know why (to some extent). Its the jumping ship, befriending a OM who is much lower on the attraction index than,me (or my wife) the ease with which it the plan is executed without a plan. It is those facts that warranty an explanation such as hormones and/or depression etc to bring SOME logic to behavior that defies logic.

I mean when yoi think back at your sitch,.do u not feel that while your disatisfaction was warrented,.some or all of your behavior or respons to the feelings you had were at the minimum bizarre, and at times bordering on insanity? I haven't read your story so excuse me if I am way iff,, its just most WAW have not thought out their fantasy and execute with no plans and say and do things that make us lbs feel they are possesed.

We just cant believe the situation requires such immature, selfish behavior when there are one thousand other ways to deal with matriage issues.