LOL!!! I love the analogy, Tori. And, point well taken.
And, ruby, thanks for your continued support, too!
I don't know my path ahead (none of us do) but I do know the path that I am on. The one-day-at-a-time path!
New job is fun but A TON OF WORK!! It keeps me happily busy! I am exhausted at the end of each day and have not initiated texting with cute guy for 3 days (big for me)...I challenge myself to get through the work week w/o initiating contact (& I so want to), but the exhaustion helps tremendously.
H has still been hanging out at house whenever he can. I told him he is welcome to hang out as much as he wants. He left work yesterday to go to his C. He is battling depression over loss of R with OW.
Boys will stay overnight (again) this weekend (one night) with H. New for us, as I suggested this as a new normal routine for boys. I like the idea of one transition at a time for them.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
I am exhausted at the end of each day and have not initiated texting with cute guy for 3 days (big for me)...I challenge myself to get through the work week w/o initiating contact (& I so want to), but the exhaustion helps tremendously.
