Most of the success stories on here have been the same way. Once the left behind spouse feels they have done everything and decide to move on, the walk away spouse then seems to realize that their spouse has now left them.
Maybe they panic, who knows. But it isn't a game, this has really got to be you being done. So don't go looking for that but if it happens, so be it.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory